05 junio 2013

“He’s just not that into you” book. PART I

So, Yeah, I watched “He’s just not that into you - the movie” instead reading the book first, but hey! I’m a big fan of romantic comedies, of course I was going to watch the movie first, in my defense, I didn’t know the movie was about a book, a really good book that has to be read for all the females in the entire planet; this book was written by Greg Behrendt, a comedian who has been seen on HBO, was a consultant for three consecutive seasons on Sex and the City and the other writter was Liz Tuccillo an executive story editor of HBO & Emmy-winning Sex and the City, of course, they has to be part of Sex and the City, one of the best series of the entire world, at least one of my favorite.

Well, that's enough about the authors; I’m here to write about, what I learned of this fabulous book titled "He’s just not that into you" AND post my favorite lesson.

Don’t let the “honeys” and “baby’s” and “I miss you” fool you. His sweet nothings are exactly that. Bad boys are actually bad, even when they say beautiful things, remember: Actions speak louder than words. A man who’s really into you is going to want you all to himself. And why wouldn’t he, hot stuff?

1.    He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Not Asking You Out.
If he likes you, he’ll do the asking, he will take you out for a dinner a movie or whatever.

2.    He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Not Calling You
Actions speak louder than “There’s no cell reception where I am right now.” Or I'm just so busy” but he’s not too busy to giving likes and comments to sexy girls on facebook. “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating. You deserve a fucking phone call. If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind.

3.    He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Not Dating You
Guys tell you how they feel even if you refuse to listen or believe them. “I don’t want to be in a serious relationship” truly means “I don’t want to be in a serious relationship with YOU” or “I’m not sure that you’re the one.” (Sorry.) Better than nothing is not good enough for you! Not good.

4.    He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Having Sex with Someone Else
Don’t ask what you did wrong. Don’t share the blame. And in case he tells you that it just “happened,” please remember, cheating doesn’t just “happen.” There is no excuse for cheating. Your only responsibility in someone else’s lapse in judgment is to yourself. It doesn’t matter whom it was with or how many times it happened. Cheating gets easier every time it’s done. It’s only hard the first time, when one feels the sting of morality and the guilt of betraying someone’s trust. Cheaters never prosper, (Because they suck).
5.    He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Disappeared on You
There’s nothing worse than having no answer, in business, friendships, and especially romantic relationships, but his silence is a deafening “see you later and that’s means, never again”. If he didn’t have the guts to tell you that the relationship was over to your face. Well, darling case closed, move on. Don’t text him, don’t call him, and don’t give him the chance to reject you again.

6.    He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s Married (and Other Insane Variations of Being Unavailable)
If that person cannot fully and honestly return them and therefore actively love you back, these feelings mean nothing. It’s not real love. You are not easily forgotten. Let him find you when he’s ready.

7.    He’s Just Not That Into You If He’s a Selfish Jerk, a Bully, or a Really Big Freak
But any good, mature guy better make an attempt to love your friends and family—especially when they’re great. Being with somebody who makes you feel shitty or doesn’t honor the person you are, is worse. You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you all the time. (You have to be nice to them, too.) [1] cited in HJNTIY. 

Well, those were my favorite lessons from the book 'He's just not that into you'. This book is like something that is going to save you from bad relationships, at least is going to help every female, to have all his senses really alert , to not be the foolish who believe in all the bullshit's that some BAD GUYS are going to tell you. Tha's why I recommend this book and it can be read really fast, is really funny, with too much wisdom and is equal or better than the movie.

I let you the download link below, and I hope you enjoy it. 

------------ Free download: HJNTIY  -----------

8 comentarios:

fly.away dijo...

We have to learn to love our self, and dont let other people screw our life. Dont give them the power to let us down. And thats how we are going to found love. Loving & respect for ourself first :)

Elizabeth Ferrer dijo...

Hola Jota, está genial esta entrada. La frase que más me gustó: You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you all the time. Creo que resumne todo lo anterior.
También me vi la peli y me gustó mucho, me identifico con Beth, Gigi y algo de Marie jiiiijiji, desgraciadamente tb algo Annaa ahh, qué carajoss.., de todas tenemos algo

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Anónimo dijo...

Me encanta tu entrada ;) Muy buena!

Sigo tu precioso blog y espero que hagas lo mismo con el mio
Un beso grande

Rachel Emma @ Daydream Frenzy dijo...

I love that movie! So true and SO funny! :)

Rachel Emma
Daydream Frenzy

Anónimo dijo...

Normalme&X6E;tе me cueѕ&X74;a leer articulos correctamente eхpuеstos,
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Raúl Trujillo dijo...

Johana, ¿cómo te va todo?, que llevas mucho sin actualizar, espero que estés bien.


Yo me cambie de perfil, pero ya te sigo con este, que es el nuevo.



Boris Estebitan dijo...

Hola amiga, te cuento que escribi un nuevo poema en el que nombro a Blink 182, te lo cuento a ti ya que tambien gustas mucho de ellos, saludos.

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